Everything That is Given Is Not What I Planned

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

This is why Sasha is my Miracle From Russia

I did the parent/teacher conference thing today which meant that it was in a group setting given the special school he attends. I cannot image my parents going through this almost grilling session. It is kind of funny to talk to these people about Sasha's progress. Of course he is failing at grade level because he is not reading at a 94% rate. They acknowledge that he has not had the years of exposure that normal American kids get before being tossed into the school system. They also acknowledge that everyday, during reading time he takes the books and "reads" them independently. And he and I "discover" letters everywhere we look. So it is like I told the team today - imagine Sasha's learning curve as a rubber band - right now it is being pulled back and it seems like there is not real progress. That pulling of the rubber band is him absorbing and mentally organizing everything. Let the rubber band go and boom, watch all the knowledge shoot out everywhere.

Given this time last year my son could not count to five in either Russian or English much less identify a letter I find him to be making amazing progress. And he practices all the time. He practices so much that I hear him "singing" himself to sleep by counting or naming the alphabet. And then I told them to check back in six months because they would be amazed at the progress.

So our world is happy. Recently, out of the blue one Saturday afternoon, Sasha thanked me for coming to get him and bring him home. His words not mine. It took a moment to register (he meant home from Russia) because I was at the other end of the house reading something or other. And then I understood so I told him well of course - he was my son and I needed to bring him home. He then said, "ok mom," and turned and walked away. It still makes me cry every time I think about it.

That is why I call Sasha my Miracle from Russia. Everyone please take care and have a wonderful Thanksgiving - my favorite holiday. - Mama Sarah

5 comments:

Bill and Myra said...

Sasha truly is a miracle as are you. I love hearing how much he is doing now - I know how proud you are.

Best wishes for a wonderful Thanksgiving.

Carey and Norman said...

So glad to hear that Sasha is doing so well. Happy Thanksgiving!!

MamaSten said...

I hope you had a Happy Thanksgiving with so much wonderful in your life that is worthy of thanks and praise! We are so glad to hear how much Sasha is improving and growing every day. We wish you all the best for Christmas.

Cindy said...

I agree the school system has inappropriate frames of reference in measuring our kiddos. Vika has done so much in the last year it amazes me, yet her evaluation in October made me want to cry because they pointed out everything that was WRONG instead of all that is right with her progress. Well, needless to say, we are in a better school now, and oddly enough, it's the school district! Thank God for that miracle. Take care! I'd love to send you a Christmas card. Email me your mailing address! schardtca@yahoo.com

Cindy & Vika

Genie said...

I love your blog! It has been a while, but you helped me keep everything in perspective throughout our sibling adoption of older children. Happy Holidays.